Making Excuses Luke 14: 15-24
The parable that is told by the Lord Jesus here in this portion is a very simple one about people who were bidden to come to a feast. It was commonly believed among the Jews that the establishment of the Messianic kingdom would be followed by a great feast at which all pious Jews would be guests. Leviathan the great monster of the deep would be served as food indicating that the Messiah ruled the heaven and the earth and the seas. It is probable that when the Lord Jesus spoke about the resurrection of the just, as he did in this passage that one of his hearers immediately thought of the golden age to come and shouted, 'Blessed is he that shall bread in the kingdom of God.' At that moment the sumptuous feast arranged by the Pharisees was only a faint foreshadowing of the matchless feast to be arranged by God and the speaker was sure that he as a Jew, would be among the guests on that notable occasion.
The Lord immediately told the story of the Great Supper and the teaching of it would have been very clear to any that were assuming that they would be at that feast.
Every important feast was announced long beforehand for the invitations were sent to the guests sometimes weeks in advance of the actual feast day. Thus when the invitations were accepted , the host knew exactly how many were attending and he could make his preparations accordingly. Then when the day of the feast finally came and when all things were now ready the servants were sent hurrying out to the various homes to announce that all things were now ready and the time had now come for the guests to come as quickly as possible to the banqueting table. To refuse at that late hour when the preparations had already been made and the food was ready was counted as a great insult. Among the Arabs to do such a thing was just about the same thing as to make a declaration of War. But I want you to see how that in this parable not only one made this gross insult but it says And they all with one consent began to make excuse and the parable tells us about three particular excuses that were made. One of them had property trouble, another had animal trouble and the third had family trouble. But the whole thing was that they did not want to go to the great feast.
God, has of course provided a great feast of good things for all who come to Him. It is One thing to satisfy a physical appetite and to deal with hunger but it is another thing to assuage the spiritual hunger of the soul. Not only have men and women physical needs but they have spiritual needs as well. The problem is that while they would not think of missing their mealtime and miss eating their physical food they are often very careless about spiritual things. The Bible says that Man shall not live by bread alone but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of the Lord Now God has provided a veritable feast for your soul. By sending His own son to die on the Cross and to bear the sin of His people he has provided a way by which the sickness of the soul can be healed and spiritual life can be provided where there was none. By the Cross of christ and by the Shedding of His own precious Blood there is now a way of salvation to sinful men and women. Men and women dead in trespasses and in sin can find eternal life and can be given an inheritance in heaven by Christ. The wonderful message of God is that all who will may Come to the feast. You are given an invitation to the marriage supper of the Lamb and all who are truly saved have that invitation guaranteed. And not only that but the Lord has sent His messengers out into the world to bid men and women come to the feast. In effect every time you hear a gospel preacher you are hearing the invitation of God to Come to his feast and to sit down at His table. And not only will you sit at that table once but you will be in His presence for all eternity. Now that is a wonderful invitation. You don't need to pay anything, you do not need to bring any gifts, you do not need to work to earn the right to be there. All has been provided. All things are now ready and all you have to do is by faith take what Christ has freely offered in the gospel. The problem about the lord's invitation is that when many people are given this wonderful opportunity they are like the people the lord told about in this parable. They all with one consent begin to make excuse. When you confront people with the gospel they have all sorts of excuses. They have all sorts of reasons to give why they should not come. I wonder what your excuse is? I wonder what reason it is that you give to those who challenge you about the gospel. For a few minutes this evening I want to focus upon the subject of excuses.

I The Compulsion to make excuses
Isn't it striking to think of those words in verse 18 They all with one consent began to make excuses. Now they all had decided for one reason or another that they were not going to go to this feast and they were not going to heed the invitation but none of them wanted to just refuse point blank to go. They felt they had to come up with some reason why they should not go. They felt that they had to justify the fact that they were going to refuse in some way or another. There was a compulsion on them to make excuse. They felt in some way or another that they had to make an excuse. And as I thought of that there were a number of things I think we can see to be true.
The first is that they felt some obligation to the man who had made the supper. They could see that he had a right to ask them to this supper and that he had a right to expect their attendance. after all the custom would have been well known to the Lord's listeners to the parable. They would have known that in the Eastern custom that when a person was bidden to the feast that they would have already given some indication that they would come. When the first invitations had gone out and when the servants of the man had come and said "There's going to be a feast will you come?" They had said "Yes" So the man who was giving the invitations had to right to expect an answer when he now came looking for their attendance. And that is part of the reason why they made excuses. They knew that the man had a right to expect them to come. And I would suggest to you that the reason why many people make excuses when they are given a gospel invitation is because they realise the lord has a right to an answer. There are some who just refuse point blank. There are those whose conscience is so hardened that they may even abuse the messengers who come with the invitation but the majority of people who are confronted with the gospel will make an excuse. Some will say " I know I should come But.." Isn't there an recognition in there of the fact that the Lord has a right o an answer? Is there that within you that tells you that you should not turn an invitation like this down? Is there an acknowledgement somewhere that the Lord who made you and who sent His Son to die on the cross as the propitiation for your sin deserves an answer and if you will not come at least you should make some reason. I believe there are those sometimes and even within the back of their minds there is an attempt to justify their refusal in the eyes of a holy God. Now I want you to look in your heart this evening and I want you to ask yourself if there is any truth in what I have been saying? You have been making excuses. You can think of those in the past and they have brought you face to face with the gospel but you have made excuses.
But then I believe that not only did these people realise they were under an obligation and they had to give some reason but they did not want to seem to totally rude. The excuse was a way to put a gloss on it, to try and cover the refusal in a cloak of respectability. They did not just want to come out and baldly say, "No I am not coming." So they looked for some reason. Some people do not want to be rude so they make excuses. But they might not have bothered their head because when the servant went back to his master and told him what they had said it says in verse 21 Then the master of the house being angry He wasn't fooled by the excuses. I want to tell you sinner God is not fooled by your excuses. Even sometimes god's people make excuses as to why they should not do the things they should. They have all sorts of excuses why they should not go to the meetings. God is not fooled by the excuses. Sinner of Christian. Never think that you can get out of your obligations before God by making excuses. As a minister I sometimes have to listen to excuses. I have to listen to the most wild and wonderful reasons why people do not do what God has said in His Word . Sometimes the preacher has to accept what you say but remember that God looks on the heart! And certainly as far as the sinner is concerned there is no reason in the whole wide world that should keep you back from being a Christian. You may be polite enough to make excuses but you are certainly rude enough to refuse God in the first place. Tell me is that what yo are doing today? are you making excuses. you are trying to put a gloss on the fact that you are a Christ rejector but you are a Christ rejector whether you like it or not.
But then there is a third reason why I believe there people were compelled to make excuses. They felt the offer was so great that they had to give a reason why they would not accept it. The invitation to this feast was so wonderful that there had to be some reason why they would not go. It could not be justified not to go without a reason. And certainly you will never get a greater offer than that which is given in the gospel. The gospel brings the offer of sins forgiven and eternal life in heaven. It brings the prospect of an eternal inheritance with God for ever. Now surely if you are going to refuse an offer like that you need to make some reason. Of course no reason that you give is going to be good enough but surely you are under some obligation this evening to say why it is that you are not saved. Why is that that you are still refusing God. At least you should bring some reason to God. I wonder what it is? I wonder what you could say that would justify your turning down an offer like this. We see the compulsion to make excuses.

II The Character of the Excuses
But secondly I want you to see the Character of the excuses. Look at the actual excuses the people made that were invited to this great feast.
Notice that they are Plausible Excuses. In some ways we might take a glance at them and think well these are important matters the men have to deal with. They are not trivial matters. They are matters of property and matters of business and matters of family. There is no-one that is going to deny that our property and our business and our family is important as long as those businesses are legitimate and honest. look at the excuses. The first had Property trouble. Look at verse 18 The first said unto him, I have bought a piece of ground, and I must needs go and see it: I pray thee have me excused. He had to go and look at his land and tend to that. The second one had animal trouble. Look at verse 19 And another said, I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I go to prove them: I pray thee have me excused. Of course it was vital to have a good team of oxen in those days and notice that the man had not just bought one yoke of oxen but five. So it was vital that he was convinced that these were going to work well. The third said, I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come. You may know that in the Mosaic law a man who was betrothed to a woman was excused military service and that after he was married he was free from military service for a year. So this was not something that would be counted as no excuse in those days. In many ways we would say that he was within his rights to refuse. So these excuses were not about trifling things. They were about important things but at the end of the day as we will see they were only excuses. You know sometimes when you speak to people about the gospel they will make excuses and you have to admit that they are substantial excuses. This man is running a shady business. He will have to give it up if he is saved. That woman knows her husband is opposed to the gospel. She knows it is going to bring friction into the home if she gets saved. Perhaps you think you have a good excuse. It is one that you always use if you are confronted with the gospel. And there are many other excuses beside. There are people who will not be saved because they see too many hypocrites and they are afraid that they will be hypocrites too. There are many many excuses and some of them have substance but remember what the Lord Jesus said. He said What shall it profit a man if he should gain the whole world and loose his own soul In some ways however these are plausible excuses
But then I want you to notice a striking thing about these excuses. They are prayerful excuses. The first man said I pray thee have me excused. That was a bad prayer. Have you ever made a bad prayer. I have heard of people who were under conviction of sin and they asked the Spirit of God to stop striving with them and He did. I remember hearing the story of a young girl under deep conviction in a meeting and she could not sleep. She was tossing it over in her mind until eventually she got out of bed and asked the Holy Spirit to stop striving and just like that the conviction left her. Have you ever told God you will not be saved. Foolish prayers are answered every bit as much as wise ones and while the Lord is under no obligation to hear the prayer of those who are not His children He will often answer a prayer like that. This was a prayerful excuse I pray thee have me excused. But it was a bad prayer
But then I want you to see that they were Paltry excuses. They were about substantial things and significant things but the would not stand up to examination. Look at the first one. They man had bought a piece of ground and he needed to see it. Well the feast would only last one day and he could see it tomorrow. It wasn't going to be any different tomorrow than it was today. And then we need to realise that if this man had bought land that he had not seen before he bought it then he had done a very foolish thing. No this was just an excuse
Then think of the second man. He wanted to try his yokes of oxen. Well I think he should have tried them before he bought them. what was wrong here is that he had a new novelty. He is like the man who buys a new tractor and he wants to see what it can do. Again it was only an excuse. And then what about the man with the new wife. Well he was certainly being henpecked early. His wife wouldn't let him out. Why could he not bring her with him? Again it was only an excuse. The bottom line is this> If men want to Come they will stop at nothing to come. If men and women really see that without christ they perish and that they are in danger every moment of being ushered out into a Christless eternity there is nothing that will keep them back from Coming to Christ and serving Christ.
There was a conference held one time in the city of Liverpool many years ago. It was a large conference and the Mayor of Liverpool was in the chair. The subject being discussed was why working people would not go to Church. Many people contributed giving reasons why the poorer people in Liverpool did not go to Church. One said it was because they worked so hard on Saturday and they needed a rest on Sunday. Another said it was because the preaching was not good enough. Another said it was because the preachers preached too long. Some said it was because they did not like the pews or because they did not get the best seats when they went. There was never such a host of excuses that you ever heard in your life and it was never the fault of the people who did not go to Church but it was always the fault of the people who were in Church or about the Church. But after about an hour and a half of this an old man got up who seemed to be Scottish by his speech. He said. "There is one reason that I don't think I have heard a word of yet. I think it is the reason for the whole thing," People waited to see what he thought the reason was. HE said, "What I have to say is that most of it comes from human depravity." And that is what is wrong with people at the end of the day. Dear friend you may say it is tt=he fault of the Christians or the fact that there is poor preaching that keeps you from being saved but have you ever looked in your own black heart. You make all the excuses in the world but they are only excuses. The man who realises the Blackness of His Sin and that the Lord Jesus died on the cross of Calvary will fly there with all his might for salvation. He will let noting keep Him Back. We see the Character of the excuses. But lastly can I show you

III The Consequence of the Excuses
What happened to the people who made excuses?
The first thing is that they incurred the wrath of the Master. Look at verse 21, So that servant came, and shewed his lord these things. Then the master of the house being angry said to his servant They incurred his anger. The excuses were seen for what they were. The Master did not accept the excuses. They were excuses that at first sight seemed to be about substantial things but the Master of the house could evidently see them for what they were and he was angry. And while we say that about the Master in the parable we can certainly say it about our Father in heaven. He sees through the excuses. I do not know what reason it is that you will offer as to why you are not saved but the Lord can see through the sham. The Lord sees that unbelief and the rejection and the hardness of your heart. And when the lord sees that He is angry. Now the wrath of God is not something that many preachers dwell on today. Most preachers like to dwell on the positive aspects but they do not like to speak of God as a God of wrath but the Word of God is very clear. Colossians 3:6 says the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience: 1 Thessalonians 1:10 speaks of the Lord Jesus as one who has for his people, delivered us from the wrath to come. So there needs to be a recognition that if you reject Christ no matter what your reason and no matter what your excuse may be then there is no deliverance from wrath to come. The God of heaven is angry with those who make excuses and we see that even from this parable.
But then there is a second thing that happened to the people that made excuses- they missed out on the blessing. The Master of the house said in verse 24 For I say unto you, That none of those men which were bidden shall taste of my supper. They had refused and so they were not going to even taste it. They had been given an invitation and an opportunity to come to the feast but their refusal in such an ungrateful manner meant that the invitation was withdrawn totally and finally and that now what ever blessings there might be were not going to come to them. And let me underline the fact that if you refuse the gospel invitation and if you greet that gracious invitation with excuses then do not presume that the offer will always be open. Do not think you can just come at any time you choose. These men who made these excuses were barred from the feast. Wouldn't it be an awful thing to be barred from the feast of God? Wouldn't it be awful to miss out on the blessings that God has for his people and miss out on being able to sit at the banqueting table of God? I tell you stop making excuses. Stop relying on those old reasons that you know are only excuses and get right with God and get right with God NOW!

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