How To Be To Make Your Wishes Come True.

Do not entertain thoughts that make you unhappy.  Instead look for reasons to be happy.  Look for things to appreciate.  Make lists of them.

Make the Art of Gratitude a habit – SAY thanks for the good food, the hour of sunshine, the house you live in, the clothes you wear, the bargain you just found, the good news you just got, the good day you just had, the fact that today you have everything you need, your health, your spouse, your children, that you are thriving, that they are thriving,  that we have peace, that you have a job, a car, that the car is running well,

Being thankful is like a magnet, it attracts more of what you give thanks for.

Clean out your house, your cupboards.  Give away what you don’t want anymore – let the things you no longer want or use be a source of joy and a reason for gratitude to someone else.  This also cleans out old energy and makes room for new energy, new wealth, new happiness.

Tell your family and friends you appreciate them.

Get  out of the habit of predicting how others will react or behave.

Stop manipulating, orchestrating and controlling your family, friends, employees, employers, workmates etc.

Do not judge anyone (including yourself), any thing, any situation.

Don’t compare.  Don’t condemn.  Don’t criticize.  DON’T  GOSSIP.

Don’t belittle, humiliate or hurt YOURSELF or anyone else.

Don’t listen to the news 5 times a day (If you really need to know what is going on in the world – once a day is enough to listen to it)  Every time you listen to bad, upsetting or disastrous news you add to that energy and increase it.  By the way, Girls - every time you pay attention to an advertisment on the TV (and if the TV is on you ARE hearing this advertisment) for anti-wrinkle cream, or how this or that product can fix whatever it is that is wrong about you, your face, your hair, your body -  you increase the odds of getting all those unwanted things because you are focusing on the fact that if you don’t already have these things – you very soon will

Keep an open mind.  Seek enlightenment.

Get out of the habit of doing stuff to please other people unless it pleases you also to do it.

Put yourself first more often.  BE  SELFISH.

Accept compliments, gifts and help graciously.

SMILE.

Daydream as often as you can.

Make lots of wishes.  But make sure you add on to each wish “if this is for my good and the greater good”

Practice the Art of Acceptance.  This means that when you really, really want something give up your attachment to it’s fulfilment.  Leave it to God, your Higher Self, etc. to decide if your desire is granted.

Practice unconditional love.

Watch your words.  Speak positively instead of negatively.

Watch your thoughts and emotions.  When there is no emotional response to an unwanted situation, thing, person etc. it disappears.

Bless the past and forget it.  Bless the future knowing that it has endless possibilities for happiness.  LIVE FULLY in the present.  (That means that if you are washing the ware, be aware of what you are doing and take pleasure from it!)

If you’ve got a problem, hand it over to God, Higher Power, Angels etc. and stop thinking about it.  Let Go & Let God.

Face your fears and realize that it is your fears that imprison you and stop you moving forward.  Realise that your fears are no more than illusions and when faced and examined – they also disappear.

REALISE that you are actually HAPPY, that you have lots of reasons to be HAPPY, that you are in a good space and on your way to a better space.  BE HAPPY.