Friendships/Relationships
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you
through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you
physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and
they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any
wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say
or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes
they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force
you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled;
their work is done. They move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has
come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring something to teach
you or something you have never done. They usually give you an It is real!
But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you
must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job
is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (any way); and put what
you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for
being a part of my life.....
Special thanks to Lorna for that !!!