THE
INTERPRETATION OF DREAMS
INTRODUCTION:
The
area of dreams, dream symbolism, precognitive dreams etc is generally divided
into two sometimes opposing, sometimes complementary disciplines – one being
the province of psychiatry and related disciplines, the other of Spiritual and
paranormal interests. In my experience
the most successful dream interpreters are those who pay attention to both.
Therefore,
Part one will give a brief insight into the Jungian theory of Dream
interpretation; Jung offers a good explanation of where dreams may come from.
Without becoming a Jungian therapist(!) one can acquaint oneself with the basic
ideas and interpretations as an aid to understanding dreams; it is always good
idea to check a symbol out for its mundane as well as its esoteric meanings.
Part
two: There are two many symbols and two many meanings attached to each; and
these meanings vary too much from culture to culture to make it feasible to
attempt a directory of meanings here, but I will give some of the most common
symbols and their meanings plus the universal symbols, and archetypes.
Part
three: The final part will give the best method of interpretation and some
practical examples.
WHAT
ARE DREAMS?
Freud,
Jung and Religion: Freud saw the unconscious mind as merely the ‘junk room’ of
the psyche and dreams therefore as jumbled garbage coming from that part of our
minds.
Jung
attached altogether more sophisticated significance to dreams; he thought that
when we sleep we access the collective unconsciousness; and are open in sleep
to messages from the Archetypes, (see below).
Religion, from earliest times has attached similar meaning to dreams, as
prophetic or didactic; the more shaman and mystical the religion the more attention
is paid to the possibility of dreams.
In
my tradition dreams are seen as soul journeys; sometimes just flights of fancy,
but sometimes harrowing or uplifting journeys into the other realms. Like Jung,
we see the
Dreamtime
as an opportunity for receiving guidance: for us, from the ancestors, the
deities, spirit guides, and our own souls.
THE
THEORY OF DREAMS AND THEIR INTERPRETATION:
PART
ONE
Psychological
Types, including Attitudinal and Functional types; and Synchronicity.
Firstly
I want to take a brief tour of the psychology of dreams. This is the boring bit
but invaluable in understanding dreams.
Even if you choose to read dreams in a solely spiritual or religious
context this helps to separate the dross from the gold.
PYSCHOLOGICAL
TYPES
Jung
divided psychological types into attitudinal and functional types.
Attitudinal
types
Attitudinal
literally refers to the attitude with which people greet change, challenge,
events, etc. People are usually either largely Introverted (reluctant to
embrace change or challenges, afraid of new faces, but on the other hand
drawing values and ideas from inner world of thought and feelings) or
Extroverted (trusting, eager, embracing change and challenge but drawing their
values and ideas from outside sources, other people etc)
Functional
types.
Functional
refers to the way in which you view reality; either intellectually,
intuitively, emotionally or through sensation. e.g. if you primarily make sense
of the world through analyzing and thinking, then this is your superior
function. Jung believed that if
thinking was your superior function then feeling is your weaker function and
needed to be worked on. In between each of these absolutes, are four
intermediate functions, mixtures of four main ones. Empirical thinking (into which incidentally, both Jung and most
witches fall) is where your think strongly but with an intuitive element. Sensory feeling, Intuitive feeling and
intuitive speculation are similarly mixes of the main types. Again if one is superior, you must according
to Jung be weaker in another area.
Persona:
the persona is the self -image you create in order to bland the ideals of
society with the ideal balance required by your psyche for mental health.
Images get distorted by pressure from various sources such as parents society
peer pressure.
A
good example of this is someone who struggles to be intellectual to please
their parents while they are naturally feeling types.
All
kinds of things can upset the persona’s delicate balance and Jung saw the role
of the unconscious mind as therapeutic, healing, and giving hints towards the
healing of the psyche. These hints come
in the form of dreams.
Synchronicity:
In
‘On Synchronicity’ (about acausal connecting principles) in 1949 Jung explored
two important ideas; the fact that while asleep (in a lower mental or vital
state) we are open to universal symbols and archetypes which he called
primordial images; and the idea of synchronicity or meaningful coincidence,
which in times of crisis opens the doors of our mind to the collective
unconsciousness and allows us to access the deep truth of some archetypes or
universal symbol. In other times, synchronicity allows us to draw truth from
our dreams and experiences. An example of synchronicity would be a person
recounting a dream containing a symbol such as a bird only to have a bird fly
into the room at the minute, reinforcing the symbolism. Strange feelings,
coincidences, feverish or hysterical episodes all can allow us , as with
dreaming, access to this collective unconsciousness, where we can find the
truth which will heal us.
There
are three types of synchronicity:
Where
the dreamer experiences something which is reinforced at the same time by an
independent event, e.g. the bird entering the room while the dreamer recounts a
dream of birds
Where
the dreamer dreams of an event, which actually takes place at a distance from
them, in circumstances that would be impossible to have known, e.g. the dreamer dreams that their mother is in a
crash and awakes to find that while they were asleep, and could not possibly
have known about it their mother was indeed in a crash
Where
the dreamer dreams of an event which later comes to pass, and which they could
not have possibly influenced into occurring.
This
is the most generalized potted version of Jung but I have paired away anything
not related to the practical application of dream analysis for the magical
practitioner; it can be very worthwhile to look up and study Jung further, but
I HAVE FOUND FOR ALL PRACTICAL PURPOSES IF YOU GET A GRIP ON THE PRINCIPLES
ABOVE THAT’S ALL YOU NEED.
PART
TWO:
Types
of Dreams, Universal Symbols, Archetypes and General Symbols
TYPES
OF DREAMS
Precognitive…the
rarest and most fascinating of dreams.
This is where you dream of something that has not happened and which you
could not possibly know, before dreaming it.
Pre-cognitive
dreams come in two types: dreams which warn us of a future we can change and
dreams which inform us of a future we cannot change.
Can
we Change the Future?
One
of the most difficult things to understand is why we are given dreams that are
incomplete or whose meanings only strike us after the event, while others are
clear precognitive dreams. I think this is because sometimes we are and
sometimes we are not meant to change the future.
Where
the dreams concern us, and our futures:
Inconclusive
dreams are there to flag the event for us as meaningful, something we are to
draw an important lesson from, but which is our destiny and not to be
shirked. It is our reactions to the
event and our growth as a result that is important. For example we dream a
strange dream containing very obtuse symbols; we don’t understand it until an
event happens and suddenly the dream’s meaning seem crystal clear – it was
forewarning us about this very event.
But there was literally no way to understand that until we had been
through the event. Therefore the event
was part of our destiny and the dream a red flag for us, to take notice of this
event.
Clearly
precognitive dreams are there to enable us to avoid something which is
detrimental to us, and which serves no good purpose in our lives, i.e. is not
our destiny
If
we are able to clearly see and understand the meaning of the dream in advance,
we can take steps to avoid the event.
Where
the dream concerns others:
There
are dreams in which you foresee the future of a leader, (e.g. assassination) or
the outcome of an event, or the events which will be of importance to loved
ones e.g. pregnancy. Generally
speaking, again these dreams fall into the two above categories, whereby you
may or may not be able to avoid the event, and for the same reasons.
The
Current event dream:
This
is another more common dream involving others, usually but not always loved
ones… This is strictly speaking not a pre-cognitive dream, because it involves
events which are happening AS you sleep, not after you wake up. However they come under the same broad
category as pre-cog dreams. In this case you dream events that are actually
happening to someone you know; for example, a death or a lottery win, or
someone giving birth. You are dreaming
them as they happen.
The
visitation Dream
This
dream falls into both the pre-cognitive and spiritual categories: In this dream
a soul known to you literally visits you, on an astral level. The most common
pre-cog example is when a loved one is dying, and comes in person to say
goodbye. You cannot know in advance of
their death, which makes it pre-cog but the nature of the dream can include very personal interaction between two souls
as well as a prophecy.
Spiritual Dreams
In
the Spiritual category the visitation dream is when a known soul, or a spirit
guide, or an archetype (in other words anyone from your auntie Emily, Ashanka
the warrior, or Father Time) comes to deliver a message. It is very strictly
speaking a message, not a prophecy.
Spiritual Dreams are dreams where your spirit guide, angel, etc tries to
impart a message; this can range from a warning to a pat on the back, to an
up-date on your current spiritual level. Often spirits of dead relatives /
friends come to impart the message, but also spirit guides and Archetypes. The Spirit guide is the most interesting
phenomenon, as it is least likely to originate in the collective consciousness
or our own sub -conscious. This is the
most likely case for divine contact. Many people who were not spiritual
received a visitation from a spirit guide, of a culture alien to their own,
imparting a profound message.
Other
spiritual dreams include dreams of involuntary levitation, traditionally seen
as a sign that a soul journey or Imramma is necessary; dreams of Warfare, or
battle-scenes;
dreams
of walking through a forest or along a sea shore: (see LOCATION)
Analytical
- the most usual dream. Where the message (either from your own subconscious or
from the universe/god/ancestors) has relevance to your present and is intended
to help you face either a situation from your past that effects your present or
a current situation. The meanings range from the mundane to the esoteric, from
work to your soul.
Wish-fulfillment/nightmare
dreams.
These
are two sides of the same coin. If you dream of winning the lottery and having
a great time on the proceeds you may possibly win the lottery but more likely –
you WISH! Literally. Likewise nightmares can often be an expression of your
fears, not a warning that they are about to come true! Depending on your
personality type you will either expect the worst or the best and will dream
accordingly
Recurring
Dreams, Recurring Themes, Cyclical Dreams and Changes over time.
Some
people suffer from one of the above types of dream. These are usually
spiritually based dreams, unless they are literally inspired by some guilty
secret or childhood trauma. Otherwise
they usually chart the emotional and spiritual development of the dreamer.
The
Recurring dream is where you dream the same dream over and over, with minor
changes, these changes are the important thing. They tell you how you are
progressing. The unchanging structure of the dream tells you about your life,
your destiny, your Karmic mission.
The
Recurring Theme is when you dream different dreams with a very, very similar
theme, generally an unusual and dramatic one, like murder. The content of these dreams varies, but the
theme is constant. The theme is the most important thing, and the changing
circumstances indicate that this is not ‘destiny’ but rather a problem you can
confront and change.
Cyclical
dreams are very rare and are usually signs of psychic activity or a spiritual
vocation, this is where you have a set of dreams, on a common theme, that are
dreamt in order at regular intervals. These rare events need careful study,
they may take a lifetime to understand and are very elusive to recall in
detail.
With
recurring dreams and recurring themes it is necessary to note the changes in
the dream over time, as this gives you a hint as to the focus of the dream and
also how you are progressing.
DREAM
SYMBOLS
Universal
Symbols
Symbols
which appear in every culture and every period, changing in outward appearance
but containing the same fundamental truth
e.g.
transportation
A
man in New York might dream of being on a plane; a villager in the Sudan might
dream of his ox and cart. A man from
the nineteenth century might dream of steam boats while his twenty-first
century counterpart dreams of a space rocket but the basic spiritual and
psychological meanings are universal, and have been the same for centuries.
Transportation, of any kind is often seen as spiritual traveling, while the
mode of transport, (luxurious, fast, dangerous etc) tells us a lot about the
persons place on their spiritual journey and the issues preoccupying them at
any given moment.
Airplane-
flying = being on the way to success, spiritual enlightenment, escape or
completion: landing = reality, grounding, responsibility, being thwarted or
frustrated, time to stop dreaming and act.
Bus-
group activity, need for family, lack of individuality
Car
– cruising = not being in control, speeding = self destructive, or panicked,
brakes applied = either the need to stop or being stopped, brakes failed =
treachery, destructive behaviour, and illness.
Elevator
– the balance between your spiritual
and mental development, often also work and sometimes the feeling of
being trapped (up or down never sideways)
Train
– traveling in conservative or preordained lines. Not in control of destiny. If
train driver then feels immense responsibility for others. Train wreck denotes
fear of control. Train stopped implies someone else is deliberately thwarting
your progress either spiritually emotionally or intellectually. Steam train = emotional or sexual, electric
train = intellectual or spiritual.
All
the above fall under the area of transportation, each has a slightly different
meaning, but all refer in some way to our progress through life, and where we
are RIGHT NOW.
Below
is a list of universal symbols and their accepted meanings:
Archetypal
Images
Images
older than you, part of mythology, part of the collective unconsciousness
God,
Earth, the Feminine, the Masculine, Mother, Death, Birth, are all examples of archetypes, and each can
appear in many forms e.g. for the feminine one can dream mother, daughter, a
cow, cat, sea, witch, night. It takes experience to recognize each
manifestation plus a really good dictionary of dream terms!
Some
examples are:
Boss:
a
parent, boss, guard, policeman, teacher, Judge, is an archetype denoting
authority and insisting that you pay attention; this kind of message usually
lays down the law, or delivers a verdict i.e. you are guilty!
Children:
Generally
spiritual messengers and gift bearers, much can be learnt from your attitude
and other people’s attitude towards, your feelings towards and others feeling
about the child in the dream; also, the behaviour of the child and things like
if it is in danger, if it is happy, sad, etc.
Children
represent projects, and also letting go of the past, or of a pet project. They
also represent responsibilities, as do pets, old people, new home etc.
Or
they can be the future child, yours or a member of the family, announcing
themselves.
Someone
close might be pregnant!!
Elders:
Old
people, elders, grandparents, are easily recognized archetypes. They are wise, calm, serene, just and
nurturing. They can be our conscience,
our guilt; they can be the reassurance that we are connected to and watched
over by the past, by the ancestors.
Often people who have a dysfunctional family or are adopted have the
most vivid grandparent dreams. This is because they need to be contacted by the
ancestors to reassure them of their place and value. Females nurture and males
bring practical gifts, prosperity, concrete advice etc.
Heroes
and villains
Did
the Cop give you a hard time in your dream? Did the fireman rescue you? Did the
dentist hurt your tooth? Did a knight in shinning armour turn up in the nick of
time? Were you kidnapped by a Cruella de Ville type? Did a cowboy escort you
through the desert? All of these are archetypes, of heroes and villains and
they are delivering a message. The Cop is reminding you perhaps, that you have
been less than honest in your dealings with someone, and the cowboy is telling
you to trust others more. Sometimes we
will dream of being in a myth or fairytale that is very familiar to us: in that
case we need to examine to role we play in the fable, and what that role tells
us.
OTHER
DREAM SYMBOLS
Abduction
= desire not to take responsibility; to leave behind existing situation without
being blamed; feeling of being
controlled by another.
Animal
In
general,
Attacking
= fear of being punished or trauma at having been punished.
Threatening
= fear of repercussion, or fear of a sexual situation that has arisen
Non-threatening
= taking responsibility for actions and adult responses to challenges
Many
animals carry deeply significant meanings for the soul and spirit; many are
also spirit guides and otherworldly advisors.
The cat and cow both represent goddess, the Bear represents God, and
also warriors, the reptile represents wisdom and belief and the rat represents
Death.
Individually,
Bird
= flying (see airplane) also freedom, delicacy, beauty and soul
Bear=
strength, being chastised or rewarded by a deity, support and counsel often
from an elder, If threatening beware large institutions or corporations who
have influence on your life.
Cat
= the Feminine (anima). Independence, trust, its actions in the dream are very
important and contain a message
Dog
=
Elephant
= Spiritual Gift; good fortune and
prosperity ( esp. if young elephant) if rampaging your beliefs are under
threat, or you have transgressed a deep moral taboo.
Fox
= possible trickery or deceit; also the need to apply intellect to an emotional
situation
Fish
= the water element; sexuality; in fresh water an ongoing relationship in salt
water sexuality and casual sex; many fish, lots of problems, thoughts chaotic
and panicked. One large fish, a major project or one object of desire.
Dolphins, uplifting and spiritual, urge to communicate with the water elements,
reaffirmation of your path in life, support. Shark= you or a loved one are
under emotional or psychic attack. Or you must face the need to stand up for
yourself.
Frog
= if at focus of dream note its demeanor and actions. If staring at you, you
are under scrutiny from beyond this world, you are approaching a new
level. If leaping away from you, you
need to slow down and take smaller steps; if not at focus of dream, it
represents another person, who is magical. It can also represent the way you
are seen, or that a secret about you is being kept from you.
Monster
= monsters represent different fears and different people in your life. They
also represent different prejudices you are guilty.
Mouse/rat
= if you aren’t afraid or it is friendly, something is deeply amiss in your
life, you are being deceived on a very deep level. If it attacks, the secret is about to surface or already
has. It can also represent disease or a
‘sick’ situation
Reptile
= see general above, the reptile is the nearest to the archetypal expression of
‘animal’ . also represent a deep-rooted, almost forgotten situation, coming to
light again.
A
reoccurring issue has not been resolved yet; for a Christian fear of sin or
treachery; otherwise new, strange wisdom.
Wolf
= If friendly or relaxed you have learnt or must learn to, live with a
dangerous situation; if threatening fear betrayal.
Angels
(faeries) = Spirituality, messenger, protection. Can represent your higher
self.
Attic
= Secrets or hidden memories: usually of an intellectual rather than emotional
nature
Broom
= .
Birth
= New beginnings, pregnancy, restarting a love affair, an new concept for
business. A dying, dead or sick child is traditionally considered an omen of
extreme good fortune
Baby
= Whose baby it is shows who is beginning a new event. The chances are high it
could be precognition, as new arrivals like to announce themselves. The
condition of the baby, and others’ feelings for it tell us whether a venture
will be successful
Blood
= flowing, means a resurgence in your life; very very red, a sign of passion;
menstrual blood or menstruation in any form fertility and magic; a death scene
with blood,; something is or should be at an end.
Chase:
unresolved feelings about a past issue; who is chasing is important. Do you
want to be caught? If so, you are
either guilty about something, or you long for a love affair.
Coffin:
The afterlife, going beyond the veil to seek advice. Someone in the coffin: who
tells us a lot, as does how they died in the dream. Sometimes person on coffin is the messenger. If someone speaks
from coffin pay close attention – it’s an important message. Funerals mark the
end of an issue.
Death:
DOESN’T MEAN A DEATH! Great change, a secret buried, and mostly, the need to
detached from a situation or destructive person in your life.
Direction:
choosing a direction mirrors choices in real life. Can’t choose = you’re bogged down with indecision : being given
directions, depends on the messenger, usually advice on how to proceed with a
problem.
Devil:
For Christians a symbol of fear, spiritual danger etc; for other religions with
a figure of evil, this figure will appear in place of the devil; for those who
believe that all things are good and evil combined this figure usually
represents PAN, and therefore Anima, animals, godhead, nature, the hunt.
Engagement
: often dreamt of in advance of the real event, precognition. Also wish
fulfillment
Fire: the fire element : advocates a fresh
approach; cleansing and holy. Fear: you know something is about to end. Hot and
roaring; you are in some physical danger. Smoke: a prayer or a sign to
praise/pray to your gods. lots of smoke; wake up, you’re house is on fire!
Father
= the masculine or anima strengthening if supportive, weakening if
antagonistic; can indicate lack of balance in dreamer between feminine and
masculine aspects
Forest
= deeply magical and spiritual symbol.
The spirits, elements and nature herself are represented by the forest.
The appearance of the forest and your feelings and activities in it are deeply,
deeply important. (SEE “LOCATION” BELOW)
God
= one of the stranger dreams and one where details are all important. If God is
central to the dream, you are being given a direct message; if not central,
then the details of the dream give you the message.
Hill
= below it you need to face challenge; on top you have succeeded, and should
look for new challenges
House
= represents your spirit, soul, mind, persona and psyche. What room you are in is most important: (SEE
‘LOCATION’ Below)
Intruder=
This is usually resentment at a situation forced on you or fear of someone
trying to ‘steal’ from you e.g. seduce your partner.
Kill
= if you murder you are fighting back against fear. You desire to eliminate
something, the person you murder gives clues as to what; if you conceal the
body and feel guilty, you are carrying too much baggage, emotionally and
spiritually, the traces of all your experiences,. You need to sort out the
useful from the hindering and let go of the latter. If you are killed you are
detaching yourself from a situation; if violently murdered you are being
betrayed.
Money:
lack of or problems surrounding……..take control of your financial affairs Now!
e.g. being lost in a market place with no purse, or similar.
Being
given, finding money etc = excellent
omen; something good will happen
Naked
= you are not prepared; you are vulnerable: you want to be honest; you are
having the classic ‘shame’ dream which means you are afraid of public opinion.
Police
= see archetypes; either heroes or villains, and either rescue or punish you
Ring
= commitment, worship, god-head, faith, alliances = lost rings, betrayal of
these things; precognitive of weddings, mergers and alliances
Sex
= apart from wish fulfillment! Sex dreams can mean union, alliance and if with
a friend, an expression of platonic love; with an enemy, means you should get
to know an aspect of yourself that you dislike, and accept your limitations in
this matter.
Shadow
= another important spiritual symbol; you are trying to achieve balance with
your shadow self, acc to Jung; the shadow in your dream helps to update you on
this process.
Spirits
= Connections with the other realms. Fear, you either don’t like their message
or you have unresolved feelings about death/illness Stand up to threatening
spirits, accept spirit guides; Vivid images of dead friends/relatives is very
definitely a message
Teeth
= You are gossiping or have been indiscreet, especially if your teeth are
falling out; if you have painful teeth or a dentist pulling teeth you are
probably being silenced against your will, or are covering up for something
against your better judgment
Window
= you will have an opportunity to focus on an important issue; what you see
through the window is important.
People
People
are usually either messengers or aspects of your own personality. They are
either known to us, (we often dream of people we know, but who act out of
character in our dreams), or they are Archetypes (A giant, for example or a
priest). If they are known, the role they play in your dream, and whether or
not this is out of character will explain message.
LOCATION
This
is the ‘where’ of dreaming. The location in which you dream yourself is a very
important clue to the theme and message of your dream. Below are some of the common places, and
their importance
1:
Forest = this is a very spiritual setting; it concerns nature and the spirit,
elementals and natural magic; it often represents your relationship to the
world around you. It almost always gives a very important message.
2:
House = the room in which you dream yourself is most important; each room has a
separate meaning. The attic represents
secrecy, but mainly the hidden depths of your soul; it’s condition shows you
the state of your spiritual life; the bedroom is love, sex and childbirth: the
living room is society, the desire for marriage or your public persona, your
family
in the eyes of others. kitchen is your intellect, your family in private,
your
family instinct and loyalty, and your friendships: the hallway is the start of
a relationship of some kind, or the need to concentrate on one particular
concern: by the fire is your heart and the center of your spirit. Libraries,
offices, etc mean work and finances, garages mean journeys, visitors etc;
cellars represent the foundation of the issue, it’s basis, plus anything hidden
from fear or shame; the atmosphere, aspect, lighting etc of each room tells us
a great deal.
3:Seashore
= the ocean is the basis of our souls and the meaning of all our spiritual
life; it is the primordial consciousness, representing the collective
consciousness, the ancestral soul, etc. It is a profound setting and always
implies spiritual meaning. To walk along the beach is to feel comfortable with
your spiritual development to stand on a cliff denotes fear of exploring
yourself and a need to see the far horizon rather than sail blindly.
4:schoolroom/courtroom
= standard places to play out authority dreams, dreams of being punished or
chastised. Schools represent both familiar ground and safety but also control
and restriction. Courts represent justice but also punishment and the system.
5:
Street/ alley: a narrow alley represents a restriction you must overcome; a
cul-de- sac is a warning to change your ways; your current life is a dead-end:
A wide boulevard urges you to go out and seek adventure and travel: a
tree-lined avenue suggests that it is time to settle down, or to deal with a
family matter.
PART
THREE
Techniques
to analyze dreams including FAQ and Dream Journals; practical examples of
Dreams analyzed.
DREAM ANALYSIS TECHNIQUES.
When
analyzing dreams you are not trying to impress the dreamer with your psychic
powers! The more you know about the dream the better, the more detail you are
given the better the analysis. You want to know their reactions to and feelings
about every aspect of the dream that they can recall.
What
makes it so much fun and fascinating to boot, is that you have to be
imaginative, intuitive and analytical; stretching your own mind while gaining
insight into another’s. if you combine the rational and the intuitive
approaches you will find that with practice more and more meanings are revealed
to you. Once you have hit upon the right theme of a dream, it opens up to you,
quite easily, all the pieces falling neatly into place, to provide a fairly
coherent whole. If you find yourself forcing and stretching to make a tenuous
link, leave it alone for a while and approach it from a different angle until
you find the true meaning.
It’s
a detective story.
You
want to decide what TYPE of dream it is; What the THEME of the dream is; and
what the MESSAGE of the dream is.
In
order to do this you need to examine the plot or NARRATIVE of the dream; break
it down into SYMBOLS and examine the FEELINGS these symbols provoke in the
dream.
Dream
Journal: To become adept at remembering dreams, it is a good idea to keep a
dream journal, where you write down every dream in as much detail as possible.
A tape recorder by the bed can be a great way of doing this. If you want
someone else to analyse the dream it is a good clear record to give them, with
as much of your own reactions as possible; if analyzing your own it will help
you be objective, and not conveniently ‘forget’ uncomfortable parts. Dream
Journals can be written up after every dream that you can recall, or only after
dreams you feel instinctively are important.
But do keep the Journal for a minimum of a month at a time, as you need
to see if your dreaming follows a cycle or if the same theme reoccurs.
FAQ
Q
every symbol has so many meanings, how do I decide which one is relevant?
A
Firstly before interpreting the symbols, ascertain from the dreamer their
emotions during the dream, and their reaction to each symbol; detail is very
important -they may say the overall dream was frightening but under more detailed
questioning , say that they didn’t find such-and-such a symbol frightening.
This could change the entire meaning of the dream. Try to get a detailed
reaction to each symbol, and also whether this symbol has a peculiar meaning
for the dreamer. For example, a rat has
specific meanings depending on its actions in the dream, but if the dreamer was
bitten by a rat as a child, the dream can just be recalling that!
Secondly
look at the dream overall. If the theme of the dream is illness, this would
affect how you read a symbol, if the overall theme is money or work or
relationships, then this slant is the most likely.
Q
How do I know whether the person in my dream is real or an archetype?
A
You must try to decide is the person or the message they give you what’s
important. If the person is behaving
typically, in a usual setting, in their
usual relationship to you, then it is likely they represent just themselves. If they are atypical, in an odd setting or
relationship to you, they are probably Archetypes. The rest of the dream will
help also in determining this.
Q
What then?
A
Break down the elements of the dream into small components and analyze the
meanings of each symbol. Then look at the entire dream narrative, and begin to
decide which meanings are most likely to be relevant to the dreamer, and
whether the people in the dream are real or archetypal.
Now,
decide on what TYPE of dream it is. Precognitive? Analytical?
Once
you have decided that, try to see what the theme of the dream is. Is it predominantly
about illness? Or love? Or fear?
Now
begin to decide what the message is. For example if it is a analytical dream,
whose theme is Illness, the message depending on the content of the dream could
be anything from ‘beware, you will make yourself ill.’ To ‘ stop being such a
hypochondriac’. If the dream were Precognitive, and the theme Illness, the
message could be anything from ‘you are going to be sick’ to ‘the country may
suffer plague’
You
have successfully interpreted a dream once you have a coherent ‘story’ starting
with the type of dream, exploring the content or plot of it and ending with the
message.
TO
RECAP
1:Relate
symbols to dreamers own Psyche by
A)
Asking
if any symbol in the dream holds personal meaning for them
B) Gathering details of both dream and the dreamer’s
feelings during it
2:Break
down dream into components and analyse each one separately
3:Deciding
what type of dream it is, and whether the people in it are real or Archetypes
4:Decide
what is the Theme of the Dream e.g. Illness and what is the message e.g.
take better care of your health.
5:Advise
the dreamer
SOME
DREAMS INTERPRETED: practical application
THE
WITCH DREAM
My
friend has had the same dream for years; she is pursued by a witch shaking a
broom stick and trying to hold her back from running. Then she herself is
flying on the broomstick and terrified of falling, while the witch still
pursues her. As she went through her twenties the flight on the broomstick
became more and more hair-raising and adventurous and the witch more angry.
My friend is extremely open minded and well
aware of that this view of witches is misconstrued; indeed her best friend (MEJ) is a witch, she has no fear of witches
except in this dream. Anyone she told this dream to dismissed it as either the
result of some scary film / book as a child or immediately set out to lecture
her about her prejudices against witches. In vain she protested that she had
none, but the dreams continued.
When
she eventually told me her dream she explained that she never had before
because she thought I would be insulted by it.
She need not have worried! In fact her dream had nothing to do with
either childhood experiences or prejudices – it was a dream about her relationship
with her mother and a plea for her to improve it.
By
applying the techniques outlined above, we can break this dream down to its
various components.
First
I discussed with her, her feelings
towards and reactions to the people and
symbols in the dream (thus relating the symbols directly to her own
psyche)
Roughly:
Witch…….By
seeing this image as frightening and threatening, it implies a difficult
relationship with an older female authority figure; a distrust of female
spirituality, and matriarchal value systems; a fear of being harmed emotionally
or spiritually by a woman
To
see the witch as ‘evil’ when well aware of the opposite is a willful and deep
rooted resentment of female wisdom.
Older
woman…..the witch is an older woman so all the above plus it reinforces the
Elder of a ‘tribe’ usually the family,
is the one with whom she has the problem
Broom…symbol
of cleansing, natural medicine and natural wisdom,
Flying
…. Development of spirit and soul.
The
changes that occurred over time, plus the symbolism in the dream, pointed to
the following:
her relationship with her mother pivoted on
one ongoing struggle. Her mother while a lovely women and a loving mother is
neurotic and tried to impose her fears and restraints on the daughter, who had
struggled since childhood to be more outgoing and braver than the mother and to
fight this instinct to be timid and never to risk anything.
This struggle was difficult for her because
the advice to be timid came from an older woman, whom she was naturally
predisposed to see as wiser than her; this struggle against the very symbol of
‘Elder’ produced very conflicting feelings in her. Her first reaction to
everything was to say no, then to screw up her courage and say yes. On the
other hand at times she was extremely reckless and unthinking. She found it hard to get the balance
right.
She
respected her mother, and felt guilty for going against her advice and at the
same time she was disdainful of her mothers’ neurosis. She resented being held
back; however as she grew up, she achieved a better balance between careful and
brave; she learned to fly the broomstick and confront issues of spirituality
and belief on her own, as well as personal and relationship issues.
The
ongoing nature of this dream suggests that her relationship with her mother is
one of the most important in her life, and something she MUST address in order
to achieve spiritual growth. She needed
to reclaim the images of witch and older woman and elder in her heart and
embrace them without fear or guilt.
Once
she began to implement these things in her life her dream went away and hasn’t
yet returned. She actively works on reaffirming the images of wise woman and
elder to herself and as her relationship with her mother improves her ambiguity
towards female authority figures fades. She has given herself permission to
embrace her superior function (analytical Thought) while working on her weaker
functions and has accepted that just because her mother is emotional and
neurotic at the same time doesn’t mean that emotion is the same as neurosis. By
opening herself up to spiritual growth she has redressed an imbalance in her
persona.
THE
RAT DREAM
A
woman dreamed of eating a loaf of bread (large sliced pan) into which had been
baked a rat, and the dead rat had been baked into every slice of the
bread; understandably this was a rotten
dream and thoroughly upset her. The rat / bread held no especial meaning for
her; she was sitting in her living room where she always ate tea, and she was
with her husband while eating the bread, she had already eaten several slices
before noticing the rat.
The
living room is the social face of the person and the family, and her husband
was there reinforcing the theme of family; they were eating, which also
indicates that this is a family matter, breaking of the bread alone rather then
with others.
Her
husband stoically ate the bread; while she was repulsed. This indicates that
she is more upset or concerned by a particular issue than he is, also that she
feels he is being unfeeling over this issue.
The
rat represents a bad and festering issue; the fact that it is dead means the
damage is done, but the woman is being forced – tricked- into swallowing it,
literally. This suggests a situation
that she is deeply unhappy about, disgusted even, and which she has worried
about for a while; her husband doesn’t feel as strongly and because of this she
is being forced to accept this situation. This is unhealthy for her spirit, and
is increasing her disgust to obsessive standards; she is literally in danger of
allowing it to poison her spirit.
When
I told her this, she explained that her daughter had done something terrible;
her husband and she had disowned her as a result. This girl had recently
returned and had managed to win over her father to a degree, something which
upset the mother, as she felt he was being disloyal, and also because she felt
she was being forced into a position of forgiving her daughter or appearing to
be a total bitch.
I
pointed out to her that this dream took place in the living room; thus it
indicated that she really was concerned about what other people thought of her
family, that her intrinsic sense of self worth had not been breached.
She
explained that her daughter was known to be disturbed and no-one would really
blame the parents or the rest of her family for the girls actions. All in all
it was the perceived slight, the surface embarrassment that had upset her. Was
it worth it? Also I explained to her that worrying about this issue was
sickening her soul and that to a large degree she was doing it to herself. She
had to discuss it with her husband, not allow herself to be forced into
agreeing, to feel she control of her own actions; She also had to accept that
once she had made her feelings known he still had the right to forgive his
daughter, if he choose and without it being any reflection on her, or his
feelings for her.
There
are two areas, which have been skimmed over, of necessity and they are firstly
the potted Jungian bits J which anyone who cares to
can read up on more fully themselves. And secondly the meanings of symbols;
there was only space and time to give a few symbols. there are dozens of
websites (just look for dream symbols) and lots of good books; the Collins
pocket gem is a very handy reference book; 10,000 Dream Symbols (harper and
worth) and any comprehensive dream directory is useful. The only problem with a lot of these books
is that they read from a purely psychological point of view, and ignore any
deeper spiritual meanings. For example, if you dream of a baby it is seen as
merely wish fulfillment. No room is left for any esoteric meaning. That’s why it is important to read as many
sources as possible, from both points of view and find as many meanings as
possible for a dream symbol, as the human mind, and the human soul are both
incredibly diverse
I
hope this has been of some interest – I am quite sure that I have left
something obvious out, but feel free to ask about anything that isn’t clear; if
I have not delved into something fully, I will do so. If anyone has a dream they would like to submit, post away -
anyone who likes to post an interpretation can do so, and I will post an
official one. And most importantly, if
anyone uses different techniques/theories/types of dreams please post your
ideas too.