Why are you angry?
Jonah 4
26th August, 2001
Road rage; air rage; supermarket trolley
rage; car parking rage (a woman in England was recently caught on video ramming someone's car out of the space she believed was hers) Rage seems to be all the rage these days but it is nothing new. Here is Jonah with a bad attack of God rage. Admittedly he has been through a lot: a life threatening storm three days in a whale a long journey to a strange city with a message that might not win friends and influence people Sometimes when we are stressed, tired, frustrated with unreasonable demands (as we think) upon us we blow, a fuse goes what I call the Basil Fawlty syndrome when the hotel manager switches from his inane grin at the guests to a towering rage when things go wrong and he can't cope. Jonah's problem was not so much failure, that things had gone wrong as actual success, things had gone well, the people had repented but things hadn't gone as he expected and secretly wanted and he couldn't cope. He had wanted the Ninevites to suffer God's judgement: what did God do? he forgave them Typical! 4.2 'He prayed to the LORD, "O LORD, is this not what I said when I was still at home? That is why I was so quick to flee to Tarshish. I knew that you are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abounding in love, a God who relents from sending calamity."' The only thing in favour of Jonah here is his honesty: he tells God what he feels, not what he thinks God would like to hear Jonah actually is prejudiced against the Ninevites: he sees them as an enemy of Israel and history would prove Jonah right to some degree, but he knows enough about God's compassionate nature to fear that God will do the unthinkable and love his enemies. And that makes him cross. There is of course righteous anger: bullying, child abuse, pornography, drug dealing, racial prejudice. These are things that make us angry and if we are not angry there may be something wrong with us. Jesus was angry when he threw the traders out of the temple and when he condemned the hypocrites. But a lot of our anger is unrighteous. The Bible says twice (Psalm 4.4 Ephesians 4.26) in your anger do not sin but our problem is that often when we get angry we get sinful; we sin in the way we work it out and express it. Often our anger hurts others and hurts ourselves. Our anger is destructive and depressive. Either it makes us lash out in word or action and we harm somebody or it sinks in unrecognised and unchallenged and infects our own spirit. The answer to our anger is as it was for Jonah to tell God, tell God everything tell him how much you actually hate the Ninevites how much you resent this gospel that calls us to love our enemies tell him about those parts of you that delight in wrong doing tell him about the gap between what you are, what you really think and what God is. It's not that we can justify those things by telling God about them but we cannot deal with them until we bring them into the light and see how selfish and squalid our motives and attitudes can be Speak to God and then listen to God. Hear his question: 'Do you do well to be angry? Are you right to feel so strongly?' That was the question God put twice to Jonah not only when he sulks over the non destruction of Nineveh but also when he sulks over the withering of his shelter Jonah had to be shown how inappropriate, how out of scale his attitudes were. Was it not really absurd: 'Jonah is filled with compassion regarding a mere plant, yet remains hard hearted towards the entire population of a city. He shows concern for one small item of God's creation, yet fails to care for a large mass of people who, like Jonah himself, were made in the divine image' (D Alexander) 'Do you do well to be angry? Are you right to feel so strongly?' We don't know how Jonah answered that question. Perhaps the very existence of the story shows someone humble enough to laugh at himself and to tell what does not show him in a good light but with which we can identify because we all need to hear that question from God: 'Do you do well to be angry? Are you right to feel so strongly?' I see lots of angry people in our time some whom may be angry about the right things but in the wrong way: anarchist demonstrators in Genoa reminding us that there is a lot to be angry about in the way that the world's poor are locked into a system which benefits a few and traps the many. That was a right anger expressed in its extremes in a wrong way. But equally the policeman who shot a demonstrator dead: was he afraid, probably he was also consumed with anger and frustration at these lawbreakers who had come to loot his city Did he do well to be angry in that way? Or bring it nearer home: we have a right and passionate concern for peace in this country we are opposed to violent extremists and those who support them but what is our attitude to them as people, whatever their views? I have seen over the years too many 'bigoted moderates' people who have correct and proper views about peace but who show by the way that they express these views that they are actually people who are not at peace in their own lives But bring it even closer still: I don't always do well to be angry: Years ago some minister friends and I were chatting and someone told me about a mistake a colleague had made. A simple mistake; he had assumed I was available for pastoral help while he went on holiday, but he had not checked to make sure I was around. Now I would have been right to have been concerned, he should have checked it out, but I was more than concerned, I blew ... I indulged in a fit of rage about this man's inefficiency I was so passionate about it that one friend remarked quietly and wisely 'That's a interesting outburst. Something else must be happening here to make you so mad.' Did I do well to be angry? Why did I blow? The simple answer was that I did not like this man who had made the mistake, he irritated me. If we had been on good terms I would have made little or nothing of it but now I actually rejoiced in his iniquity, I had something on him. In my anger I sinned, but God graciously used my friend to challenge me about the inappropriate gap between the supposed cause of my anger and my reaction. Do we do well to be angry? Do we have a fraction of Gods compassion towards people? People who have done wrong, do you want them to be condemned? Lads killed joyriding, a former terrorist takes his own life what's your instant reaction? Serves them right? A prominent politician caught with his pants down or his hands in the till: do you want to know more and luxuriate in the details or do you pray for God to have mercy on him and his family. 'Love does not rejoice in iniquity' says 1 Corinthians 13. Love does not take delight in wrong doing but does not some of our reaction to wrong doing savour of a secret pleasure in it. I am not talking about a proper concern for justice: yes we need more righteousness in our society, more fair dealing, more promise keeping, more truth speaking, more respect for people, more care for the vulnerable and that requires appropriate punishment of offenders but we don't need any self righteousness that secretly delights in people's downfall We need more of Gods attitude 'a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abounding in love' And Jonah stalked to his shaded seat and waited for God to come round to his way of thinking And God is still waiting for a host of Jonahs in their comfortable houses to come round to his way of thinking and loving. Quietly, let's allow the Holy Spirit to shine a probing light on our attitudes, on our long hidden memories, our sense that we have been badly treated and also that need to acknowledge that we have treated others badly. Think of a time when we blew it on the road, at work, in our homes. Lord, show us the roots of our anger if we have done well or badly to be angry, what really fuelled our emotions what insecurity or buried guilt drove us to react inappropriately We confess to you we say we are sorry for what we did wrong in that situation we thank you that there is full and free forgiveness in Jesus Christ and we ask for grace to react in a better way and if need be for the will to go to someone and ask their forgiveness for how our unrighteous anger hurt them. May the Lord direct your hearts into God's love and Christ's perseverance. 2 Thess.. 3.5 |