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Choosing A Flatmate
There may be times when the cons outweigh the pros, but life in bed-sit land can be lonely and renting a flat on your own can be hopelessly expensive.

Other than your choice of course, college and favourite Teletubby, choosing a flatmate is probably the most important decision of your academic life. You're unlikely to draw the short straw and get a mild-mannered axe-murderer but it's amazing how one small, irritating habit can drive you insane over time.

A recent survey highlighted ten of the things guaranteed to turn you into a basket case:

  • using up the milk/marg/bread/tea/coffee and not buying any more.
  • hair in the tub/ear buds by the sink/bath ring
  • not washing up/buying washing up liquid
  • not cleaning the toilet/peeing on the floor
  • the phone bill
  • band practice/choice of music (and the constant loud playing of...)
  • smelly clothes around the house
  • not having the dosh to pay the rent
  • drinking all the vodka/Jack Daniel's/beer
  • the flatmate's new girl/boyfriend
Short of a reference from the family doctor, how can you tell whether a prospective flatsharer will be a good flatmate?

First look at yourself. Are you tidy or messy? Noisy or quiet? An early riser or party animal? Sporty or scary? Ask yourself what you want from a flatmate. Do you want a friend or someone who'll keep themselves to themselves? Do you want someone with similar extra-curricular or academic interests as yourself, someone of a similar religious or social background, or a good cook who doesn't mind cleaning the bog?

Establish whether you want to share a flat with any of your mates. If not, or you think you'll need extra people, advertise your requirements on college notice-boards and in your Accommodation Office Image: The flatmate from hell

  • try and give as much detail as possible: i.e. smoking/non-smoking etc.
  • interview as many people as you can before making a decision
  • ask questions that might reveal other facets in someone's character
  • check personal details: dress, fingers (does this no-smoker have nicotine stains?)
  • do they like classical music or drum'n'bass, going out or watching TV, hoovering or dusting?
  • do they have a passion for kippers on Friday nights?
Be honest. Make sure they know exactly what sort of person you are and who you are looking for. Make sure they have a clear understanding of shared costs and financial arrangements in the house (such as sharing house bills) and attitudes about bringing home girl/boyfriends or having them move in.

IF YOU SIGN A JOINT CONTRACT YOUR DEPOSIT CAN BE USED TO COVER OUTSTANDING RENT/DAMAGE, SO CHECK ALL THE CUTLERY BEFORE YOU KICK THE LAZY GOOD-FOR-NOTHING OUT...

 
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